“A mentor is someone who allows you to see the hope inside yourself.”-- Oprah Winfrey
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Do you ever find that there are times when you don’t have the right answers? Are there times when you need help improving a technique or skill? Do you find yourself in situations where sometimes all you need is a little encouragement?
Throughout our lives, we will come in contact with people who will have a profound impact on us; some for the betterment, and unfortunately, some not so good. If we want to succeed, we need to be quick to identify, and sever any relationship with a person who is exerting a negative influence in our lives. What can be more challenging is identifying and developing a relationship with people who can help get us to the next level. These people are called mentors. A mentor is regarded as knowledgeable and possessing insight in a given area. The book of Proverbs (19:20) speaks to mentoring, it says, “listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you’ll be wise.”
Why don’t we seek out mentors? Is it because we might be embarrassed that we might not know something? Is it because we have too much pride? Is our ego getting in the way?
A mentor is any person who has your best interest at stake and is willing to teach you. . Believe it our not, most people are willing to share their wisdom and expertise with others. Their wisdom and expertise can be used to help you develop and monitor a game/life plan. Sir Issac Newton once said, “If I have seen further it is only by standing on the shoulder of giants. If you look at the history of all great men and women, you will find that someone, somewhere in time , took them under their wing.
Today, make it a point to find a mentor. If you have one, make sure you show your appreciation for the time and energy that they have spent on you. While you are at it, take a good look at your skills and expertise. Could you be a mentor to someone? All you need to do is show you care, be willing to listen, and share your experiences with your protégé. It is a win/win situation; you win, they win!
Remember, a good mentor can make the difference between becoming a champion or just a contender. Gotta go – searching for a giant or two!
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It's your life: live it, love it & celebrate it!
MJD
Friday, June 11, 2010
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